He who digs a pit will fall into it, and a serpent will bite him who breaks through a wall.
We arrived to Utah a few days ago. We hadn’t been back here in about two years. I must say that I had forgotten how nice it is here. I love it. I have had some great quality time with my family. It has been great.
Now, you must be wondering what the quote I have at the top is all about. Well, I guess it resonated a lot with me right now. These past few days…
I feel sad. I just feel like there is something broken in me. I am not working right for some reason and that is causing me a lot of disability. I wish I could be all put together and write about very deep things with metaphors that are eye opening or cause people to be amazed by them. I just don’t know… I know good from wrong and I keep on digging a pit to then jump into it on my own accord.
I feel a lot of dissatisfaction in the responsibilities that have been given to me and I wish I could simply drop everything and do my own thing. I know that is not what growing up is about, in fact is the exact opposite is taking on the hard and difficult responsibilities of life and pushing on. pushing on forward no matter how heavy it all may seem.
I think back on those days where I felt fully myself. My new life is asking me to leave everything and forget about who I am or who I want to be and take on different responsibilities. My new life is asking me to forsake myself and a part of me is and has been holding on tightly to who I think that I am and want to be.
There is a longing in my soul that is like a growing monster eating me inside. I have a thirst that is not quenchable with anything. I think that a relationship is what I am looking for but I fully know it isn’t. I had one. I had a relationship and my dissatisfaction and emptiness did away with it. Now, there are people who care about me and who want to be there for me but I keep on feeling empty and gloomy.
I worry about the future…
I look back at people and resentment grow. An evil type of resentment. A resentment that I know should not be there and doesn’t have any room inside of me because I know that I deserve every bit of what I am feeling right now. I drove myself here. I made the bed and now I am laying on it. I dug the hole and now I have fallen inside it. What is most interesting is that I know all of this and even being inside here, I keep on digging deeper as if there was a way out underneath but I am fully aware that the only way out is through the top. I am trapping myself more and more…
In spite of all this, I am keeping all this hidden. It’s like a secret I can’t let go of. A secret I don’t want people to know. I don’t want to see everything fall apart and I think it would if people find out I just want to get lost for a while to then find myself again. I want to go on without any restrictions.
Like Jack Reid’s song, I just want to go back to me. I want to go back to myself. I want to go on alone…